Dear Irma
In her 96th year, Phel K. Jacobsen has lived through a lifetime of monumental change—from the simple days of hanging clothes on a line and writing letters to the dizzying speed of our modern world. In this heartfelt memoir, she invites you to join her on a journey through a past that feels both distant and deeply familiar.
Growing up in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, Phel came of age during the Great Depression, where every penny, including the three-cent cost of a stamp, was counted. But the distance from friends and family, and the challenges of an often-isolated life, made letter writing a necessity. Her letters became a lifeline, a way to stay connected to loved ones and to make sense of the world as she knew it.
In Dear Irma, Phel shares the letters she’s written to her departed family members and closest friends. Through these intimate reflections, she reveals not only their roles in her life but also the person she became because of them.
This book is a touching tribute to a life well-lived and a powerful reminder of the enduring importance of human connection. It will inspire you to reflect on your own journey, cherish your memories, and perhaps even put pen to paper yourself.



